1 broken habit is a mistake, 2 broken habits is the start of a new habit. The task of breaking a bad habit is like uprooting a powerful oak within us. And the task of building a good habit is like cultivating a delicate flower one day at a time. ~ James Clear
When we know we are being observed, we tend to perform better.
It's the REASON why we apply Don't Break the Chain for 8 weeks. Once you've done it consistently every day for 8 weeks, it becomes a habit and it takes far less willpower to do it!
It's why the duration of many bootcamps is 8-weeks.
Example:
I recall the yoga class we did when we were being filmed. The entire class went all out for shorter duration (30 mins instead of 60). Knowing we were being filmed honed our focus. Everybody showed up with their A-Game.
The show Biggest Loser plays to this phenomena, known as the Hawthorne Effect.
"The novelty of being research subjects and the increased attention from such could lead to temporary increases in workers' productivity."
In a real way, a timer can serve the roll of 'observer,' as can gamification.
When you measure what matters, what you measure matters more.
If you limit yourself to 45 minutes to write, you will write more within those 45 minutes. The awareness of a time limit highlights the scarcity of it.
A good way to cut back on activities you suspect are not working for you is to set a time limit.
For example, I can easily spent 4+ hours on a client website. But the more time I spend on a project, the lower the ROI (return-on-investment) the project produces (usually), and the less time I have to pursue other projects.
Be careful what you sign up for. But it's less about what you signup for and more about the measure of success. Like in a scope of work, unclear expectations set you up for failure.
Don't worry about beating yourself up. When you declare an objective, and integrity is a high value, you'll do whatever it takes to stay in integrity with your word.
The history of NaNoWriMo. It began in 1999 with 21 writers stepping up for the challenge to write a 50,000 word novel in a 30-day period. Today, over 300,000 people take part in the challenge annually. Today, the non-profit generates over 1 million/year in donations and hundreds of volunteers.
I love the way the site gamifies an activity like writing. It gives writing greater purpose by keeping focus on the outcome, not the result.
I can control the effort, not the outcome.
The idea generation game is like this. I'm excited by the potential of tapping into the collective wisdom of the crowd.
To train oneself to do something in a controlled and habitual way.
Without discipline, you'll never establish new habits. Discipline is not something we're born with, so we need to find a way to make it happen for ourselves. The problem arises because initially, it's more work... but long-term, it's less work and those who succeed in establishing a new habit stay anchored in the benefit, not the effort.
Changing your life begins with changing your habits.
Q. What can I do today to establish a new habit of action?
A. To establish a new habit of action, you can start by following the Two-Minute Rule. This rule states that when you start a new habit, it should take less than two minutes to do. By scaling down your desired habit into a two-minute version, you make it as easy as possible to start. For example, if your goal is to walk 10,000 steps each day, your two-minute version could be as simple as putting on your running shoes. This approach helps counterbalance the tendency to take on too much at once and allows you to reinforce your desired identity each day. Remember, simplifying the process and focusing on the first movement can be key to establishing a new habit of action.
The main problem or challenge is helping people develop powerful habits that can transform their lives and achieve excellence or their highest potential (what Aristotle called "arête"). Habits are the cornerstone of optimization and self-actualization.
The concept is to provide a masterclass on habits, drawing from various philosophies, research, and strategies. The goal is two-fold: 1) help identify and install the most impactful "keystone habit" for each individual, and 2) teach the master skill of building any desired habit effectively.
Tactics: 1. Keystone Habit Identification Exercise: Guide listeners through a process of self-reflection and prioritization to pinpoint the one habit that could have the biggest positive impact on their life. Provide a worksheet or checklist to facilitate this process.
Habit Implementation Toolkit: Offer a comprehensive set of tactics and resources for installing new habits, such as:
Habit Mastery Roadmap: Provide a step-by-step plan or framework for developing the skill of habit formation itself. This could include principles like starting small, building momentum, making it easy, and consistently applying proven habit strategies over time.
Key Takeaways: - Habits are the foundation of excellence and self-actualization. - Identify and prioritize your potentially life-changing "keystone habit." - Master the skill of installing any desired habit through systematic strategies. - Leverage willpower wisely and remove obstacles ("kryptonite habits"). - Create meaningful motivations and use effective triggers/cues. - Consistently apply habit-building principles for long-term habit mastery.
Imagine waking up every day feeling like you're stuck in a loop, much like the movie Groundhog Day. Each day feels like a repeat of the last, filled with chaos and overwhelming responsibilities. This endless cycle can make you feel stretched too thin, and it's easy to get lost in the noise. But what if there was a way to break this habit and create a more peaceful, fulfilling life? By leveraging AI as an unbiased coach-on-demand, you can make micro-decisions that align with your goals and tap into the collective wisdom of the world's greatest.
The concept here is about breaking free from the repetitive loops that define our lives. Our habits and environments shape our personalities, often trapping us in cycles of behavior that feel impossible to escape. However, recognizing that we are the creators of these loops empowers us to change them. By challenging our values and beliefs, even those deeply ingrained like integrity, we can start to see a different path forward. This idea is reinforced by examples like Steve Jobs, who held onto his vision until it became reality. Your legacy is not predetermined; it's something you actively create, one decision at a time.
By implementing these tactics, you'll find yourself breaking free from old habits and creating a life that's more aligned with your true desires and potential.
Leverage AI for Micro-Decisions: Use AI to help you make small but significant decisions about where to spend your time and energy. Make sure your prompts are clear and aligned with your goals. Ask: Giving the direction I'm going, is this moving towards or away?
Say No to Surface Noise: Identify what is creating unnecessary noise in your life—like obligations you can't realistically meet—and start saying no to them.
Challenge Your Beliefs: Take on the challenge of questioning every value and belief you hold, even those you consider fundamental. This will help you break free from limiting patterns.
p.62: "About 95% of who we are by midlife is a series of subconscious programs that have become automatic
Align Actions with Intentions: Ensure that your behaviors match your intentions, that your actions are equal to your thoughts, and that your words align with your deeds.
Hold Onto Your Vision: Like Steve Jobs, maintain a clear vision of your future reality and live as if it has already happened.
Redirect Your Path: Just as placing food can redirect an ant's path, small changes in your environment or habits can lead you toward a new direction.
Write Your Legacy: Understand that your legacy unfolds one page at a time. Each decision you make contributes to the story of your life.
From The 7-Day Mental Diet by Emmet Fox. In it, he challenges readers to completely transform their thinking for seven days and observe the results.
Our minds race at warp speed, and the busier we are, the faster they go. The quality and quantity of our thoughts directly impact our quality of life.
When I wake up, my thoughts often center on work, money, and family—usually tinged with worry. The problem is that our thoughts shape our reality. If I don’t address my thought patterns, they will negatively influence my life.
The mental diet involves not allowing a single negative thought into your mind. Initially, most of us can only manage about 30 seconds without those unwanted thoughts creeping back in. But as with any diet, successful planning leads to successful execution.
If you know the sources of your negative thoughts, you can plan alternative positive ones.
In a food diet, we recognize our pitfalls: soda, sweets, and other unhealthy foods. We often revert to these habits. In a thought diet, identify what worries you—the pet peeves and irritations that plague you most.
For example, if you worry about money, replace that with gratitude for what you do have. Just like substituting an apple for a cinnamon roll, it’s about what you aren’t consuming as much as what you are.
Your thoughts are nothing but habits... you succeed in overcoming a bad habit when replace it with a better one.
If you're concerned about your health, focus on parts of your body that are functioning well. If your left hand hurts, concentrate on the right hand instead. Shift your focus. This type of mental substitution makes your mind resistant to negative thoughts. As a result, your life can only improve.
Pay close attention to every negative thought and catch it before it takes root. You will notice a difference almost immediately.