Ability is the keyword.
Accountable is the checks & balances part of the word.
Who holds you accountable when you work for yourself?
You've got to structure your work to pay the bills.
If you can't pay your bills, you have to go get a job.
I've never forgotten that to be self-employed means that you have to be employ others to pay you.
Self-employment requires:
You need a system for tracking the work through to completion! It's a big part of the reason why I've become dependent on AuthorDock.
A roadmap to taking extreme personal accountability in order to drive achievement and fulfillment. The key is to avoid victim mentality, proactively set detailed commitments, and follow through consistently without making excuses.
Uncommon Accountability argues that taking personal accountability is the key to achieving greater success and fulfillment in life. The author defines accountability as being willing to accept responsibility for your actions and outcomes without making excuses.
Moran introduces the 'Victim-Accountable Continuum', which shows that people typically fall somewhere between playing the victim and taking full accountability. The book provides strategies to move from victim thinking to accountable thinking.
Some of the main ideas include:
Goal: Complete draft of book manuscript (80,000 words)
Tasks:
- Outline main sections and chapters (by 3/1)
- Write 1st draft of Ch. 1-5 (by 4/1)
- Write 1st draft of Ch 6-10 (by 5/1)
- Write 1st draft of Ch 11-15 (by 6/1)
- Revise all chapters (by 8/1)
- Send to editor for feedback (by 9/1)
- Incorporate editor feedback (by 10/1)
- Final revisions (by 11/1)
Accountability Partners: - Meet with writing coach biweekly for progress check-ins - Share updated word count with critique partner every 2 weeks - Meet with editor monthly to review new drafts - Celebrate milestones with spouse
This maps out the key tasks and deadlines required to complete the book manuscript goal. It also identifies specific accountability partners who will help hold the person creating the map responsible for making progress and hitting deadlines. Regularly reviewing and updating an accountability map keeps you focused on the actions needed to achieve your goal.
Life is a choice. Every day, every moment, you choose your actions, your thoughts, your destiny. Excuses are the enemy of choice. They seduce you into the victim mindset where outside forces control your fate.
Wake up! The victim mentality is quicksand. The more you struggle against it, the deeper it pulls you under. You always have a choice, even when life deals you a bad hand. The difference between victims and accountable people is mindset.
Victims play the blame game. It's always someone else's fault. Problems are caused by external forces - bosses, colleagues, the economy, luck. Victims absolve themselves of responsibility.
Accountable people play the ownership game. They look inward to their own choices and actions first. They own their work, double down on commitments and follow through. No finger pointing, no escapism. The buck stops here.
This simple shift transforms everything. Suddenly you have power, no matter the circumstances. You author the story. You drive outcomes. Obstacles become challenges to actively tackle.
When you own it, you can change it. Own your mistakes publicly, quickly correct them. Own your goals, attack them relentlessly. Communicate commitments clearly, then overdeliver.
Shine a spotlight on all your work. Public accountability builds sharp motivation and exposes gaps. Create an accountability map to track progress. Review it, update it, live it. Make it visual and data-rich.
Invite partners to hold you responsible. Let them challenge excuses before you make them. Give them permission to kick your butt when needed! Meet regularly to reset commitments.
With extreme ownership, achievement flows. Excuses become laughable. Victimhood disappears in the rearview mirror. Eyes ahead on the open road you pave with daily choices.
When you own your choices, freedom reigns. Even small choices build to life-changing results over time. Moment by moment, you write the story called You.
Your life is a blank canvas. Your choices are the colors. Seize the brush! Paint a bold masterpiece built on responsibility, contribution, fulfillment. The brush is in your hands.
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When you own your choices, everything changes.
Excuses fade as you acknowledge your role in outcomes, good and bad. Failures become feedback to learn from, not reasons to hide. Circumstances and difficult people are challenges to conquer, not barriers to blame.
With accountability, you stand tall, creating results through sheer will and grit. No more victim posture.
True accountability starts by realizing you steer your life through daily choices. Those choices wholly determine your path and destination.
When you grasp your power of choice, life becomes thrilling. Setbacks are expected and surmounted. Wins are achievements to build upon, not lucky breaks. Every moment holds potential.
Accountability unlocks your dreams. It turbocharges career success, wealth creation, relationships, health, purpose. Though not a guarantee, accountable action maximizes your odds.
Study history's giants. They owned their work first before anyone else noticed. Accountability enabled their rise.
No other personal quality has deeper impact than extreme ownership. It paves your unique road to greatness and fulfillment.
The brush is in your hands. Seize it with accountable grip. Paint your bold masterpiece stroke by stroke.
Mindset Drives Everything
Results (R) come from Actions (A), which arise from Thinking (T).
Success is not luck. It flows from accountability - how you think and act.
Winners who lack financial discipline often lose newfound wealth fast. Their mindset sabotages them.
Those who think and act accountably before a windfall tend to stay grounded after. Mindset sustains their success.
It all starts with mindset. Your inner world of thoughts, values, habits and beliefs shapes your outer results.
There are two mindset camps: victim or accountable. Both create radically different actions and outcomes.
To compare mindsets, use the RAT model:
Results (R) come from Actions (A), which arise from Thinking (T).
Thinking drives actions. Actions drive results.
Your thinking patterns - conscious and unconscious - steer your behaviors and outcomes.
Victim thinking causes victim actions and poor results. Accountability thinking spurs accountability and achievement.
Mindset sits at the root. Master your inner world to improve your outer world. Small mindset shifts create big result differences over time.
The battle is won or lost in the mind first. Equip yourself with an accountability mindset for the life you desire.
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Comprehensive resource list
Atomic Habits by James Clear
Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg
Why We Do What We Do by Edward Deci - one of the founders of self determination theory describes the science of motivation and well-being
The Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin
Good Habits, Bad Habits by Wendy Wood